Why I Limit My Number of Clients Each Month: The Importance of Personalized Care, Family, and Well-Being
As a Christian doula, my heart is to provide individualized, compassionate support to every family I work with. I believe that birth is one of the most sacred, transformative events in life, and it is my privilege to walk alongside families as they navigate this beautiful journey. But I’ve also learned that in order to offer this level of care, it’s essential for me to maintain balance in my own life—prioritizing my family, my marriage, and my own well-being.
That’s why I’ve intentionally chosen to limit the number of clients I take on each month. While I would love to serve every family who reaches out to me, I’ve found that taking a smaller number of clients allows me to provide the most personal, dedicated care while honoring the other aspects of my life that are equally important.
Here’s why this approach is not only better for my clients but also for my family and my own health.
1. Personalized Care Means Quality Care
Each family I work with deserves my full attention and care. As a mother of four, who has personally experienced both the joys of birth and the sorrow of miscarriage, I know how deeply personal and unique each birth story is. The emotional, physical, and spiritual needs of every couple are different, and I am committed to understanding those needs and providing the most individualized care possible.
When I limit the number of clients I take on each month, I can truly invest in each couple's journey. I have the time to sit down with you, learn about your hopes and fears, and discuss your birth plan thoroughly. I can provide the emotional and practical support you need throughout your pregnancy, birth, and postpartum period, without feeling rushed or stretched too thin.
By maintaining a manageable client load, I can ensure that I am fully present for you when the time comes to welcome your baby. I want to be able to answer all your questions, provide resources that resonate with your unique needs, and, when labor arrives, be the steady presence you can rely on, offering comfort and guidance every step of the way.
2. Honoring My Marriage and Family
As much as I love supporting families, I also have a responsibility to my own. My husband and children are the foundation of my life, and I have learned that in order to be the best doula for you, I must also be the best wife and mother I can be. Birth is unpredictable, and while I commit to being there for you when you need me, I also need to ensure that I’m available for my family.
By limiting the number of clients I take on, I can be fully present for my own children during the busy, sacred times in our lives—whether it's a school recital, a family meal, or a weekend getaway. I want to honor my marriage and be the partner my husband deserves, especially as we navigate the rhythms of life together.
Having time for my family also allows me to rest, recharge, and stay grounded in my own relationship with God. It’s only when I’m physically and emotionally nourished that I can offer the best care to the families I serve.
3. Investing in My Own Well-Being
Birth work is beautiful, but it is also physically and emotionally demanding. I give a lot of myself to each family—my energy, my heart, and my prayers—and I’ve learned over the years that I must take intentional time to care for my own body and mind. This includes practicing self-care, maintaining spiritual health, and getting adequate rest, which are vital for long-term sustainability in this work.
When I limit my client load, I ensure that I have the time to decompress after each birth, reflect, and restore myself. This balance keeps me healthy so that I can continue to provide the best care for you and future families.
I also prioritize personal growth and continuing education so that I can stay informed and offer the best support. Limiting the number of families I take on each month means I can dedicate time to staying spiritually and physically nourished, enriching my relationship with my wonderful husband, pouring into my children, enhancing my skills, and deepening my understanding of holistic care through learning and putting into practice what I preach.
4. Building Meaningful Relationships
I don’t just want to be your doula; I want to be a trusted partner in your birth journey. By limiting the number of clients I take on, I can build deeper relationships with the families I serve. I’m not here to simply check off a list of tasks—I’m here to walk alongside you, to listen, to pray with you, and to encourage you.
This approach allows me to be a consistent presence in your life. I have the space to be more than just a birth professional; I want to be a friend who is invested in your emotional and spiritual well-being, not only during labor but throughout your pregnancy and postpartum period. Building a relationship based on trust, prayer, and mutual respect makes the entire experience more fulfilling for both of us.
5. A Commitment to Quality, Not Quantity
This is not just about limiting my workload; it’s about prioritizing quality over quantity. I firmly believe that the work I do is a calling. Each birth is sacred, and each family deserves my best. By limiting the number of clients I take on, I ensure that I can offer high-quality care that’s tailored to your needs, rather than rushing through a large number of births without being fully present for each one.
When I can focus on a smaller group of families, I can give my all to them without sacrificing my own health, my marriage, or my children. This ensures that my care is meaningful, intentional, and truly beneficial to the families I serve.
The decision to limit the number of clients I take each month is one that honors both the families I serve and my own well-being. It’s about maintaining a balance between the sacred work I do and the importance of nurturing my own family and faith. By taking this approach, I can provide the personalized, holistic care that each family deserves—emotionally, physically, and spiritually—while maintaining the health of my marriage, my family, and myself.
As you prepare for this beautiful journey of pregnancy, birth, and beyond, I want to be there for you in a way that honors you, your family, and your birth experience. I am committed to offering care that is grounded in prayer, compassion, and a holistic understanding of your needs. When you choose to work with me, you are not just choosing a doula—you’re choosing someone who is fully invested in your family’s health, peace, and future.
